John Hensley

  • The Unmanageability I Couldn’t See

    Tonight’s meeting topic was the first three steps. The chair spoke about his own experience with the first, and something he said about the second part of it sparked a memory for me. When my turn came, I said my name, said I’m an alcoholic, and thanked him. The memory went back to early…

  • Shop Update: The Guides Are Live

    The four guides are now live in the shop. Four printable guides for step work, the amends, the daily practice, and the first few weeks in the rooms, plus two bundles.

  • When the Signal Clears

    Tonight the chair came in with something he’d drawn up, an analogy comparing our spiritual connection to a radio signal. Things can interfere with it, the volume can get turned up or down, and he had us drawing comparisons between that and the Big Book and the program. We also had a newcomer with…

  • Always Working on It

    Last night we were finishing up step five and moving into step six out of the twelve and twelve. I got called on to read, so I started the way I always do, my name is John, and I’m an alcoholic, and read from the middle of page sixty five. There’s a part that…

  • Letting Go of Old Ideas

    Tonight was our beginner’s meeting, the one we hold on Mondays for newcomers. The topic is usually kept simple, steps one, two, and three. The chair opened by having someone read the How It Works section, page fifty eight, and he singled out one sentence from it: Some of us have tried to hold…

  • Lying, Denying, and Self Delusion

    Tonight, the chair asked me to read, from the last paragraph of page twenty two to the middle of page twenty three. The passage about the alcoholic who goes back to drinking. If you ask why, he can offer any number of alibis. It compares the drinking to a man who complains of a…

  • Two Paths: What I Shared With Tonight’s Newcomers

    Tonight was a newcomer meeting, and we actually had a newcomer in the room, along with a handful of others still pretty new to the program. The chair had someone read from page twenty five, the section that opens by saying there is a solution, and it runs almost the whole page. One part…

  • Sobriety First: What I Passed Along Tonight

    Tonight’s meeting had a really solid topic. The chair read from page sixty two, the paragraph about selfishness and self-centeredness being the root of our problems, then followed it with the first line of the next paragraph, the one about how we think our problems are of our own making. After that he asked…

  • Bite Sized Chunks of a Bigger Idea

    Tonight’s meeting topic came from the chair, who pulled it from the chapter The Family Afterwards, though really he was pointing us toward the three short sayings that show up at the end of that chapter and get repeated all through the rooms. First things first, easy does it, and live and let live.…

  • Everything Now on Gumroad

    Nine packs are live on Gumroad so far. Posters are held back for now. Here’s the full lineup. Steps Series Card Pack View on Gumroad Traditions Series Card Pack View on Gumroad 9th Step Promises Card Pack View on Gumroad Bedevilments Card Pack View on Gumroad Big Book Prayer Card Pack View on Gumroad…